Self-disclosure: I’m Not Okay

February 5, 2020.Reading time 7 minutes.

These past couple of years have been a whirlwind of trials, emotions, uncertainty, loss, fear, anxiety and joy. I can’t begin to go into detail of the things I’ve gone through but if I were to share them with you, you might not believe me because I don’t look like what I’ve been going through.

Why I’m Not Rushing To Get Married

October 13, 2019.Reading time 8 minutes.

At the end of the day, marriage isn’t a race. It’s just another season of your life. A beautiful season if you marry for the right reasons. Enjoy your singleness. Live, learn and find your happiness.

The Real Competition Is With Yourself

September 2, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

The real competition is you vs. you. You’re the only common denominator between your past, current and future self.

Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear

August 1, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

Imagine, the creator of the universe gave you the keys to open and create opportunities and you refuse to move due to your “fears.” Insane right? How many doors have we refused to knock on because of fear?

Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse/Assault Rape Is Not The Victim’s Fault

June 29, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

“Rape is something that haunts me as a woman. I am constantly hyperaware that I could be attacked at anytime and I need to be prepared to fight. Although I enjoy working out, one of the reasons I decided to start lifting weights to get stronger was because I got too many email alerts about sexual assaults happening on my college campus.”

Why He Ghosted You

June 23, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

“At some point we’ve experienced some kind of ghosting in our dating life. Ghosting is one of the most disrespectful thing a person can do to another person. It shows a lack of character, empathy and maturity.”

Choosing Yourself In Tough Situations

May 23, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

“When you get on a plane, the flight safety video always stresses the importance of putting your own oxygen mask on before helping another person. This same theory applies to your daily life as well. You cannot help someone else when you’re drowning.”

The Little Things Matter

April 12, 2019.Reading time 3 minutes.

“Sometimes we tend to believe we have to do big things to impress our friends but that’s far from the truth. The little things matter so much because the create the sum of the relationship.”

How To Be More Confident

March 30, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

“Confidence is important in our success. We need to know that we’re qualified and have what it takes to be a great friend, boss, employee, father, mother etc.”

Live As If Your Prayers Have Been Answered

March 17, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

“Let’s face it, life is not easy when you have limitations such as money, time, failures and more. However, it is possible to choose joy in the midst of the storm. “