I Hate My Body

Last week, I met with a woman and the first things she said when we sat down was, “You’re bigger.” And then I responded, “What do you mean?” Her next words were, “Well your shoulders are broader and you’re looking manly. I see your workout videos and you look manly.”

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Why I’m Not Rushing To Get Married

At the end of the day, marriage isn’t a race. It’s just another season of your life. A beautiful season if you marry for the right reasons. Enjoy your singleness. Live, learn and find your happiness.

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What Is NYSC?

To engage in this scheme, you must have received your Bachelors degree from an accredited University either locally or internationally. NYSC is mandatory for every Nigerian born home or abroad to receive gainful employment in Nigeria.

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Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear

Imagine, the creator of the universe gave you the keys to open and create opportunities and you refuse to move due to your “fears.” Insane right? How many doors have we refused to knock on because of fear?

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Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse/Assault Rape Is Not The Victim’s Fault

“Rape is something that haunts me as a woman. I am constantly hyperaware that I could be attacked at anytime and I need to be prepared to fight. Although I enjoy working out, one of the reasons I decided to start lifting weights to get stronger was because I got too many email alerts about sexual assaults happening on my college campus.”

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Why He Ghosted You

“At some point we’ve experienced some kind of ghosting in our dating life. Ghosting is one of the most disrespectful thing a person can do to another person. It shows a lack of character, empathy and maturity.”

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I Took My Ex’s Advice

“A lot of times, we fail to see situations as a whole. This mean we need to have a holistic perspective on what happened and how we an grow from it.”

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Choosing Yourself In Tough Situations

“When you get on a plane, the flight safety video always stresses the importance of putting your own oxygen mask on before helping another person. This same theory applies to your daily life as well. You cannot help someone else when you’re drowning.”

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